To give birth alone or with the husband?
I am afraid of doctors. I am afraid of blood and I am afraid to give birth to my baby alone. I have read a lot of literature on this theme. And I understood, that on the one hand, I want my husband to be with me, to calm me down, to support, to massage me, to help me breathe correctly. But on the other hand, the statistics shows, that number of divorces among pairs which gave birth together is higher than among pairs where the husband did not participate. According to statistics quarter of all American men who took part in childbirth needed sexological help after that.
Each woman wants her husband to know how hard and painfully it was. But I think, that I will better tell him about it.
Childbirth is a difficult process. And the woman not always looks attractively. I know, that if my husband will be there I will be worried about how do I look.
I think it is better for me to calm down and to think only about my little baby. I’ll see him so soon!!!